Sizzling News!

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An interesting viewing topic I came across at stomp.com (star blog) which reads:

Singapore women sizzle! A recent survey revealed that Singaporean women are among the top five most unfaithful in the world. The survey, by condom maker Durex, says 19% of Singaporean women admitted that they were unfaithful to their spouses, placing local women among the top five most unfaithful in the world. Singaporean women now have an average of 6 sex partners, up from 3 previously. This is the second highest number in Asia, just behind the Japanese.

And to think only men cheat! Surprise, surprise! Women fall for sexual variety too, but why is it that the men who gets the blame? Here’s the reason – women can go astray too, only that, they know how to cover up the traces of the crime scene. I’ll show you in my future post!

Anyway, any idea why on that high number of promiscuity for the local gals? Top 5 in the world, mind you! That’s, surprising.

You should read Zoe’s thoughts on this issue, I practically LOL-ed reading her very first paragraph: KARMA! What a way to get back at cha, you, slutty boyfriend you!  If you can do it, I can do it TWICE as good! Talking bout equality of men and women!

I love her quirky suggestion of rounding up the number analogous to having a different partner for any day of the week (if you can’t do basic arithmetic, it’s SEVEN by the way)! Allow me to offer her a BETTER suggestion, why not make it a yearly basis; 365 guys to sleep with in a year and a segregation of gazillion trillion million , confused sperms swimming inside her?

If that’s the standard to go by, I don’t mind either cause for the guys, it’s the same as having a different woman from I-13 every fortnight. Geez! (insert big smiley face here).

On a side note, you might think that my posts are usually male-centric. Trust me, I’d definitely like to clear this cloud of negativity,  let me reiterate: It’s only my 5th post! There are hundreds more posts I’ve planned for you guys, so keep your chin up yeah?

To allay your misconceptions, yes, for you lovely readers, guys or gals, I’m currently reading a book called Act like a lady, think like a man by Steve Harvey. Kinda like a counteractive measure for you ladies to handle men who think they’d got the edge by reading The Game. Cool huh?

Stay tune for the review! Have a blasting weekend! 😀

FIZ

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Personal Review: The Game

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Holla! After reviewing  The Game, i realized that I’ve left out my own personal opinions about the book. Which is rather uncharacteristic of a blog’s sole purpose: a platform for me to express my own personal views; a place for me to be me. So, here it is!

1) Nerds are taking over the world by storm! was my first impression. Think about it: the jargon, theories and tactics, all mapped out in such a meticulous manner, all piecing up the dynamics of social interaction, for what?

Yes, they’re refining how we communicate with one another, something which separates us from the other animal counterparts by knowing more about ourselves. Gone were the days where actors and rock stars hogged the limelight, it’s the nerds now who steals the show by taking centrestage!

'Nuff said 🙂

2) The Good’s and the Bad’s. It’s inconceivable that there will be  mixed responses by reading the book – depending on your gender. The Game is an instruction manual devised by men, for men, targeted to understand the complex circuitry of the woman’s mind. Of course, we would surely say, ‘This book his truly magical!’ because it work wonders for our own benefits, but what about the fairer sex?

Surely, they’d think that the book is instead, cursed. It’s just condescending for men wanting the book just to manipulate them for the pleasure of the flesh.

3) Contentment. Remember the cat-string theory (if you don’t, see the previous post for definition)?  Neil Strauss worked his ass off learning the tricks of the trade. To be what? Irresistible to women. For what? To have sex with ’em. It can’t be any simpler than that; that’s how we men roll. Which is why Strauss was dismayed when Dustin, whom he aspired to be like initially, starts being spiritual.

Neil sees him as a living embodiment of being the man, where he thought happiness equals to bedding with any woman he desires. Instead, he seems beleaguered, the ‘been there done that’ aura an all too familiar feeling, and in need of something more to find solace in. Just like the cat-string theory, humans crave for things which is beyond our reach, and when we have it, would it lead to happiness? That’s how I personally see The Game: it’s a cat-string analogy on the biggest scale.

And how will The Game change when Neil finally finds a woman of his life?

Get my point?????

4) One-itis (go google it!) . I’m beginning to smell a trend here. The player – the incredibly good-lookin with his sizzlin hot swagger and charm about him that melts every woman in his wake – tends to fall in love with the woman who never fall for his bait. Movies such as ‘Love, and other drugs’ and ‘Crazy, stupid love’  concurs my claim, as with the story of Neil himself.

Can someone please enlighten me on this phenomenon?

Here’s my take: humans seek challenges. If that player employed his game to a woman who falls easily to his antics, then, she will be like any other women. Similarly, the gorgeous lady will find a man different if he didn’t compliment on her beauty on and on and on, something which she is NOT accustomed to. 

There’s also a term called ‘Sensory Adaptation’, which i learnt in my Psychology class.

 It’s kinda like a numbing effect, where we ignore things that are normal. For instance, when you put on a sock, you will feel the teeny tiny pressure of the sock clamping on your feet. But as the day progresses, you won’t notice that pressure anymore, even though it’s still there.

Maybe this concept is akin to the phenomenon described above; that our mind being jolted and it could be worthwhile to focus more into the person who stood out from the pack.

Sensory Adaptation

What’s your take?

5) Ugly women. Can they be gamed? The ladies who’s lucky in the gene pool would normally be the target for men to play The Game. You see, it can either be a privilege or a liability for the ladies.They garner most the attention –  women crave for lots of attention – she wants from men (sometimes, for the wrong financial reasons).  Revealing her temptuous cleavage or silky smooth legs and she reeks of men trying to just to win her body – that’s a liability.

What I’m saying is, ugly men can find  a way to attract beautiful women using the techniques using The Game. Although it takes more time, skill and effort compared to the more good looking alpha males, there can still be a way. Unfortunately, can the same be said for women who is less attractive?

Master of The Game


Book Review: The Game: Penetrating the secret society of pick-up artists by Neil Strauss (Style)

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It is not a mystery that every man fantasizes snaring up a perfect 10 and getting her into bed; with all her 36-24-36, scintillating assets put to good use. But in reality, this seems a little too far-fetched to the millions of average-looking dudes who are left to accept that some men are either “born to have it or not” envious notions to be with women.

But is it true that these skills only comes naturally and cannot be nurtured?

Welcome aboard Style’s (Neil Strauss) voyage, as he takes you to real-life adventure that you would only dare dream of.  Average-looking and nothing overly famous, witness how he undergoes metamorphosis from a geeky novice to wingman to an accomplished pick-up artist, who, according to some, even bested one of his former gurus, Mystery.

Yes, all it took was one weekend with Mystery before a series of life-changing events began to unreel right in front of his disbelieving eyes: decoding the loopholes of a woman’s psychology. Learn how he discovered the sets of fool-proof algorithms that even larger-than-life celebrities like Courtney Love, Paris Hilton and Britney Spears weren’t even spared, much less others. These includes the use of

1)   Negging, a skillful insult used to lower the self-esteem of a beautiful woman who is normally attuned to expect compliments.

2)   Cat String Theory, an analogy used to stimulate a woman craving for more, but enticing it just beyond her reach. The same behaviour displayed of a cat chasing after a string which eventually gets bored after a successful pounce on the string.

3)   Or checking for Indicators of Interest (IOI), a series of body language that shows the woman’s acceptance of your advances that may ripen to physical intimacy.

Consider yourself lucky for Style’s benevolence though, as he painstakingly laid down bare all these secrets that he learnt though travels around the world at the comfort (and safety, seriously!) of your own home.

Be prepared to be rudely surprised too, by the repercussions of having one too many pleasures! How being in ‘hot tubs surrounded by bikini-clad models’ took a turn for the worst and how Project Hollywood challenged their ability to appreciate human touch or to even think rationally.

And when Style finally met his match (his one-itis), would he be able to execute The Game with indeed, style and panache, or will he be left to rue the fine line between love and lust that is constantly blurring for him?

 

 

FIZ

Overview

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Dont get me wrong guys, i do not expect u to feel sorry for the state that im in. Like ive mentioned, i still got the opportunities to get to know more gals and im content enough for us to be friends, platonic or not. Some even turned out to be close friends till now, actually.

But, as of today, i still couldnt resist shouting out loud that i got an air stewardess’ number!

Haha 🙂 Maybe i should go for nurses as well; who knows she’s got the touch to treat my wounds? Or a policewoman to  lock me up for stealing her heart?

Cheeeeeesy.

K enough bout me and my ‘achievements’. I figured that it’d be wonderful for our blog to be as colourful and lively as possible. What better ways than to give an overview of how sgsayang will operate rite?

SGsayang Mind-map overview

Let’s begin with the ‘Education’ branch and move clockwise.

1) Singapore – a country hard-wired to perceive education as the most important factor to excel in life. We all knew that. But really,  how much does paper qualifications determine one’s preferences for a potential date?

Would a graduate mind going out with someone who’s lower educated than him/her?

2) Common sense tells us that women would love to be with someone who holds a strong position in his company. Charming and brimming with confidence, she would also be happy to learn how much $$$ he has in his savings account.

But what if it’s the other way round; would you even dare to contemplate dating your lady boss?

3) Whats gonna be so special about our blog is the first-hand responses we receive thru interview sessions. We would then consolidate all the transcripts and study the preferences and trends. Dun worry, all the particulars will be kept confidential and who knows, if we’re established enough, we would be interrogating your famous local actors and actresses too!

4) ‘Pretty woman, walking down the street. Pretty woman, the kind i like to meet’… While not many would deny the truth from Roy Orbison’s opening song, how much is this relevant to Singapore’s context? Will physical traits outdo moral or financial well-being?

If so, how does the ‘ah bengs‘ and ‘mats‘ get all babes then?

5) Ah, that multi-racial diversity! People of different races and cultures blending into one, harmonious Singapore. But really, how much role does one’s skin colour play in affecting his/her judgement in love? Love is, afterall, blind, but can it be colour-blind too?

6) The plan is to design, in a way, for this blog to be an 0n-going process. It’s easily achievable by continuously reviewing movies, books, articles, websites or products we may find interesting for (would-be) couples to indulge in.

7) Of course, finally, the heavy truth about age. What will be the ideal age to get married in singapore? How will the response differ with respect to the educational level, spread across the different races?

Ok, there u go. Pretty hefty stuff i wrote for my second post, huh. But the fact that u’re reading this proves that ure enjoying urself, and probably wouldnt want me to stop. Heh.

Finally, a warm welcome to Ian, our new writer for SGsayang. Hopefully, he would offer more interesting inputs for this blog.

Till then, take care y’all!

FIZ

 

Virgin Post

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Greetings!

So this will be my first post ever for the blog! There will always be a first time for everything, rite?

OKAY, lets stop the gibberish and here’s the deal. After separating with my ex years ago, i finally get out of my comfort zone and tried hooking up as many ladies as possible.

The first few dates were less than enjoyable. I dont usually earn a second call-up after the first date and most of the outings were juz with a couple of lady friends. Partly the reason was i’m cash-less, car-less and needless to say, hope-less. I was inclined into thinking that singaporean women are nothing but spoilt, educated brats. Gone are the days when chivalry and kindness precedes the value of the dollar notes. Yes, i even tried the novelty of writing poems and making videos and drawing portraits, but what the hell am i thinking?!

I definitely missed out on the fact that this isnt the 16th century english era where knights in shining armour scoured the land just to save damsels in distress!

I was even rudely jolted when some of them

1) refused to go out with me cause she hates taking the public transport. Bang!

2) degraded her ex-bf by saying that he’s more stupid than her just because she’s higher educated than him. Ouch!

3) stood me up for ONE freaking hour before finalizing that she wont want to go out with me. Fuhyo!

So it kinda had an avalanche of after-effects on me. Undeterred, i decided to shift my attention to the un-DIPLOMA-tic women, and got a better response. With lower expectations, i could finally stamp my authority and was suddenly transformed to be the dependable male. Definitely and ego-booster for me!

However,all these led me into scrutinizing the complications related to the effects of education for women.

But no, i wont be jumping into conclusions just as yet. And neither am i an advocate to diminish the equal-opportunity rights for the fairer sex. Especially not when my arguments are merely baseless accusations without facts and statistics. I dun wish for a tirade of angry responses from u lovely guys anyways.

You could say these are only the appetizers for what u can expect next, so stay tune peeps!

FIZ